Don't Forget Your Crown: Self-love has everything to do with it. - Derrick Jaxn

Don't Forget Your Crown: Self-love has everything to do with it.

By Derrick Jaxn

  • Release Date: 2018-09-25
  • Genre: Philosophy
Score: 5
From 294 Ratings


Ladies, I'm not here to tell you how many secret ways you can bend over backwards to get some man to come and validate you. You've heard enough of that.
Men, I'm not here to tell you how to attract more women in an effort to chase the fulfillment your heart yearns for but you never learned how to keep. You've tried that already. It did not, and still has not worked.

I'm here to tell you how to stop getting mindscrewed, toyed with, and taken for granted. It's killing your hope in love, and likely even eating away at your sense of self. You don't have to admit it to me, and you can hide it from your circle, but deep down, you know. Why am I so sure? Because I've been there before.
I've been on both the receiving and giving end of heartbreak. I've been the bullshitter and the bullshitted. I, like many of you, tried everything to put myself in position where I could never get hurt, but no matter what, I failed because I was already hurting due to my lack of understanding of self-love.
In this book, I take you through not only my personal process in that journey but also the lessons I learned to help me lead millions in that same journey for themselves today. I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm just telling you that if you continue going in circles like you've been doing then it's by choice because I've now given you the map. The rest is on you to make the necessary steps. Just don't forget your crown


  • Incredible

    By Hill in NC
    I just came out of a horrible relationship with a narcissist. The course of that relationship destroyed who I was at my core. I have been in therapy and working to restore the love I lost for myself while trying to love someone else. This book was right on time for me. I have slowly inched my way into the dating world and it’s hard. I needed the book. It has helped me set healthy boundaries and reassured me of my values so that I never end up in that type of situation again. I highly recommend this book. It’s easy to read and I got through it super fast! Best part is finding out the author is from eastern NC just like myself!
  • Wow

    By Bammer3xs
    I’m not going to lie, things definitely were hitting too close to home while reading this the point of wanting to put the book down. But I didn’t and I’m extremely happy I didn’t. I’ve spent many years living in the past, wondering why the previous situations didn’t work. I learned I don’t love myself like I should and before I can expect ANY situation to work out I must first allow myself time to heal, time for self-care and self-love. Thank you, I really needed this!
  • Best thing I’ve read in a while

    By agalinato
    Really appreciated his point of views, thoughts, and being vulnerable. Would definitely recommend it to anyone. Thank you!
  • Excellent

    By RoxanneCD
    Mr. Jaxn provides the reader with a no holds back, genuine guide on how to navigate what can be one of the most painful and confusing experiences a human has- love and relationships. He lets his readers know how to maintain our crowns and how to not tumble the crown off our significant others. Thank you!
  • Got into my spirit

    By Queen Educated
    This book is something I think both men and women should read. Society today goes on and on of how men treat women badly. As I read this book I learned more and more of I was the person yes me a woman who was doing the hurting. This book spoke volumes to me. I’ve tell guys who come along that I am not the girl they need. They see a pretty face and a nice figure but they don’t see the soul. After reading this book, until I believe I have more than enough love for myself it won’t be fair to pull anyone down this road with me. Thank you for giving us this book
  • I can relate

    By Msdivadot
    My name is Marie I’m from New York. I enjoyed this book from beginning to end. A lot of what was said struck home hard. I am currently going through a hard break up due to my lack of loyalty, trust, and respect. So me reading this book had me teary eyed, gave me hope, gave me a clear understanding of my wrong doings, and help me to see that I must look into myself and change. Thank you!!!! ~Marie
  • Great Read

    By C.N.Palmer
    A great read! new up to date advice for relationships for our day and age! Really enjoyed his insight on relationships!
  • A fresh perspective

    By Kvail22
    I read this quickly after a breakup. It was a very enlightening perspective. A must read for every woman, regardless of their relationship status. Probably the best 10$ I’ve spend in a very long time. I hope he continues to write more. I will be buying anything this man writes!
  • Review of “Don’t Forget Your Crown”

    By jj430j
    I ENJOYED reading this book! It changed my perspective on a couple of things and it’s very satisfying to know there’s other men in this world who’ve accepted accountability for their actions and learned from their mistakes. Most definitely a good read.
  • A must read!

    By Love this game so much
    I bought this book after researching the author. I found this book to be well read and informative, but put in such a way anyone could long as they were honest with themselves. He opened my eyes to mistakes I’ve made in my own relationships which helped me heal and move forward.